Husbands

Bella secretly married her childhood sweetheart, Stevie, over a decade ago; they were at university, two big kids playing at being grownups. When it all unravelled and reality hit, Bella simply got up and left. And the secret remained a secret. Years later, Bella meets Philip and, despite her vow never to marry again, she can’t resist him. He is a catch. Funny, charming, interesting and kind. Only hitch is, she’s still (technically, anyway) married to Stevie. Bella, typically, just ignores the problem. And the moment to tell Philip never quite seems to arrive. So Bella plans never to reveal her secret – after all, it’s just a silly piece of paper, lodged at a registrar’s office in Aberdeen, isn’t it? She hasn’t seen Stevie for years – probably never will again. Except that Bella’s best friend Laura has fallen in love, and when she introduces her new man to the gang it is none other than Stevie. Could things get any more complicated? Only if Bella and Stevie fall in love with each other again…
Bella 'OK? I'll call you tomorrow, Amelie. You're OK, aren't you?' ‘Yes,' says Amelie with a sigh. Her tone isn't reassuring. I press the red button on the handset and disconnect my lovely friend. I'm left with an overwhelming sense of inadequacy and grief. Grief is so lonely. It stains everything it touches and builds huge divisive walls. I should know, my mother died of cancer when I was nine. I will never stop feeling cheated. I'd wanted to say something meaningful, calming, consoling and true to Amelie but I couldn't. I've tried to find those words for nearly ten months now but they don't exist. Sighing with frustration I push my fists into the sockets of my eyes and rub hard. When Amelie called, I'd just finished my night-time round of pelvic-floor exercises and I'd gritted my teeth through eight reps of stomach crunches. I was mid my cleanse, tone and moisturize routine but now I can't find the emotional energy to continue. All that vanity stuff seems so pointless in the face of Amelie's pain. Loving is such a risk. I look at my husband, Philip, who has fallen asleep while I was on the phone. He's clasping a copy of The Economist. I turn on the bedside lamp and turn off the bright overhead light, ease the magazine out of his hand and kiss his forehead. I always love him even more after talking to my widowed friend; grief makes us selfish. I wish that every time I spoke to Amelie I didn't think, 'There but for the grace of God,' but I do. Which probably means I'm not as nice a person as I'd like to be. I nip around to my side of the bed, climb in next to Phil and hold tight to his strong, bulky body. My breathing slows down and I can't feel my heart thud quite as furiously inside my chest. During my conversation with Amelie it raced so violently that I was convinced it was attempting an escape bid. I often think my heart would like to escape. Philip makes me feel safe. He's nine years older than me, which is undoubtedly part of it. He is kind, respectful and thoughtful, even after sex. The men that I dated before Philip had not often been these things, even before sex. We met not quite two and a half years ago - I was working as a waitress in a cocktail bar, which makes me a tribute to a Human League song that I can barely remember but Philip enthuses about. An interesting dinner-party anecdote maybe, but working as a waitress in a cocktail bar is in fact a fairly grim existence. Philip is a highly successful City trader and while I'm not sure exactly what City traders do, I know that they get paid an awful lot of money to do it. So Philip charged into my life armed with the traditional gifts of dinners in fancy restaurants, flirty lingerie (wrapped in tissue paper and hidden in thick cardboard bags) and even the occasional meaningful CD and book. He also brought with him a new array of courtship tools. He was a grown-up. Philip talked about ISAs, pension plans and stocks and shares with the same passion as other men talk about football league tables, PlayStation and bottled beer. He remembered stuff I found difficult to retain, like when the hunk of junk I called a car needed to be squeezed through its MOT, or if my household insurance needed renewing, and his DIY knowledge actively turned me on. When I met Philip I was, I suppose, a bit of a mess. The most substantial thing about me was my overdraft and my most meaningful relationship was with my bank manager. In fact, thinking about it, I hadn't actually met my bank manager, so my most meaningful relationship was with the girl at the call centre (probably in Delhi) who I rang regularly to explain my latest embarrassment. It wasn't as though I squandered money on designer labels and expensive lotions and potions. I didn't own much; not a flash car or a property. Not even a shoe collection; hard to believe, when you consider that most women who have been brought up on a diet of Sex and the City and Friends think that a to-die-for shoe collection and wardrobe is, well ... to die for. It wasn't as though I'd been idle. I'd worked pretty much every day of my life since I graduated with my middle-of-the-road degree. The problem was I hadn't been consistent in my career progression. I had been on the bottom rung of several career ladders but had never clambered to the top of any of them. The thing is, I don't know what I want to do or be. I try to view it positively that, after several years, I can confirm that I don't want to be an accountant (too many exams), a banker (I don't like wearing suits), a calligrapher (anyway there isn't much calling), a dental hygienist (other people's mouths - yuk), something in PR or anything in the music industry. I still think being a chocolate buyer for Selfridges might be good but the opportunity has never arisen. In fact fewer opportunities arise as the years pass. On leaving university starting and failing to complete one graduate trainee programme is acceptable but after several years of failing to finish any trainee programmes, potential employers became wary of what they (rightly) identify as my inability to commit. I'd been seeing Phil for nineteen months when he popped the question. I like to round up and say two years; it sounds more . . . appropriate. Actually, he sort of blurted it rather than popped, in a very un-Philip moment. If I was a betting woman I'd have put money on Phil being the type of man to propose in a controlled environment, like a restaurant or in front of some significant building or beautiful sunset. I'd have guessed that he'd buy a ring in advance, go down on one knee and recite a rehearsed speech asking me to do him the honour etc etc. In fact he yelled over gushing water (he was wearing Marigold rubber gloves at the time). I think his exact words were, 'We'd better get married before you cause any more trouble.' How could a girl resist?
Adele Parks, author of Husbands, talks about regrets, socks and Nicole Kidman’s legs. Who or what always puts a smile on your face?
My son and my husband. What are you reading at the moment?
Zoe Heller, Notes on a Scandal. I’m probably the last person in Britain to read this and it is a scandal that I’ve left it on my bookshelf for so long (I bought it many months ago) and it’s fabulous. I’ll probably finish it tonight. Which author do you most admire?
Couldn’t pinpoint one. There are so many fabulous ones. What’s your earliest memory?
I was about fourteen months. My father was lowering me into the bath and I still was wearing socks (he was fairly stressed out by the whole bath time experience and hadn’t noticed). I remember screaming at full pitch as I didn’t have the language to explain the situation to him. It’s considered unusual to have memories this early but I genuinely remember the steam, my panic, my dad’s rising horror. What is your greatest fear?
Being locked up in a foreign jail for something I haven’t done. Other fears are unspeakable. How would you like to be remembered?
Fondly, as someone who tried her best to be decent. Have you ever done something you’ve really regretted?
Maybe I should have told more people I loved them along the way but generally, I’m not big on regrets. I have made mistakes and had to make amends and apologies as I go along. How do you spoil yourself?
Reading a novel. What’s your favourite word?
Oblivious is a word that makes everyone in our family laugh. Who do you turn to in a crisis?
My husband, Jim, my parents, my sister and Tracy, Nic and Jo who are amazing friends. What makes you angry?
Lies. Have you ever had any other jobs apart from writing?
Lots. I started out as a teacher of English as a foreign language in Italy. I’ve worked as an account handler in a couple of bigwig advertising agencies (TBWA and BBH) and I’ve worked for Accenture, a large marketing consulting firm, I co-ordinated the advertising campaigns in Europe, Middle East, Africa and India. Are you in love?
Unequivocally. What’s your worst vice?
I worry too much, over just about everything. What are you proudest of?
My son. Where do you write?
At home, in a small windowless office. Not ideal. Where’s your favourite city?
Paris. When was the last time you cried?
Can’t remember exactly, within the last week, maybe. I cry a lot. Often with happiness or at movies, books, plays, the news. One wish; what would it be?
Perfect health for my family. Did you enjoy school?
I wasn’t too keen on primary school but I very much enjoyed my secondary school. What's your worst habit?
Imagining I’ve offended people. Have you ever broken the law?
Speeding and parking offences, I’m afraid. I don’t make a habit of it. What quality would you most like to have?
Wisdom and I hanker after a singing voice as a talent. If you could swap a physical attribute with someone else, what would it be and who would you swap it with?
Nicole Kidman’s legs would be very fine. In fact I’d be happy with any part of her. Have you got a party trick?
No. Do I sound boring? Do you have any nicknames?
Parky, Delly, Parksie. Nothing amazing just variations on a theme. Do you have any unfulfilled ambitions?
I’d like to teach and take photographs on a professional basis at some point. I’d like my husband to work from home. I’d like to be able to swim better than I can. What's in your handbag/bag at the moment?
Purse, notebook, pen, lip gloss, keys, two photos. I travel light. What makes you mad!
On a micro level, the misuse of 'those' and 'them', people dropping litter, people who push in front of queues. On a macro level, the mindless consumption of our earth's resources.